Okay, so today I want to talk about something a bit different, something I recently had to figure out myself – Chinese wedding tea sets. Yeah, it sounds kinda niche, but trust me, if you’re planning a Chinese wedding or attending one, this is gonna be useful. So, here’s the deal.
First off, I started by looking around at what’s out there. I mean, there are tons of options online, but I wanted something that felt authentic, you know? Not just some cheap knock-off. So I spent a good few hours scrolling through different websites, checking out what they had.
Then, I remembered there’s this local store that specializes in Asian goods. I figured they might have something, so I popped in there. And bingo! They had a whole section dedicated to tea sets. I talked to the store owner, a really nice older lady, and she explained a few things to me. Like, did you know you’re supposed to avoid teacups with the character “Shou” on them for weddings? “Shou” means longevity, which is great, but it’s more for birthdays and stuff, not really weddings.
She showed me a bunch of different sets, from simple porcelain ones to really fancy ones with intricate designs. I was kinda overwhelmed, to be honest. But I kept in mind what I wanted – something that looked nice, but wasn’t too flashy, and of course, it had to be practical.
I also learned about lucky numbers. Like, the number 2 is good because it means “double,” so it’s like “double the joy.” And 8 is super lucky because it sounds like the word for “prosper” in Chinese. 9 is also a great number, especially for weddings.
After looking at a few options, I finally settled on a beautiful red porcelain set. It had a simple, elegant design with some subtle gold accents. It came with a teapot, a tea tray, and six cups – perfect for the tea ceremony. The number of the cups are just right, not too many, not too few.
Choosing the tea set took some time, but it was worth it. It’s not just about having the right tools for the tea ceremony; it’s about respecting the tradition and adding a special touch to the wedding. I picked up the tea set, paid for it, and carefully carried it home.
When I got home, I carefully unpacked the tea set and placed it on my dining table. I imagined the happy couple using it during their wedding, and it just felt right. I even practiced pouring tea a few times, just to get the hang of it. Now I just need to wait for the big day to arrive, and see this beautiful tea set in action.
- Avoid teacups with the character “Shou” (longevity) for weddings.
- Lucky numbers to consider are 2 (double joy), 8 (prosper), and 9.
- Consider the material and design based on personal preference and the occasion.
Finding the perfect tea set
All in all, it was a fun little adventure, and I’m so glad I got to learn more about this part of Chinese culture. If you’re ever in the market for a Chinese wedding tea set, just remember to do your research, ask around, and choose something that feels right for you and the couple. You can’t really go wrong with that!
