Alright, listen up, y’all. We’re gonna talk about this here weddin’ stuff, somethin’ about uneven… uneven what now? Oh yeah, uneven bridesmaids and groomsmen. Means one side’s got more folks than the other, like when you got a whole passel of grandkids on one side and just a couple on the t’other.
Now, some folks get all het up about this, thinkin’ everything gotta be matchy-matchy. But I’m tellin’ ya, it ain’t no big deal. This weddin’ ain’t about countin’ noses, it’s about gettin’ hitched to the one you love. So what if the bride’s got more friends? Or maybe the groom’s got a bigger family? It don’t matter none!
See, back in my day, we didn’t have all this fuss. You just got up there with whoever you wanted standin’ beside ya. Didn’t matter if it was even or not. And let me tell you, them weddins’ lasted longer than some of these fancy-schmancy ones do now.
So, you got more gals than fellas, or the other way around? Don’t sweat it! There’s plenty of ways to make it work. Like, why do they even gotta walk down the aisle all separate-like? You could just have ’em all walk together, mix ’em up like a good stew. Or maybe have some of them fellas walk with two gals, or one gal walk with two fellas. It ain’t rocket science, y’know.
- Mix it up: Don’t worry about guys on one side, gals on the other. Just let ‘em all walk together, happy as clams.
- Double up: Got an extra bridesmaid? Have a groomsman walk with two of ‘em. Or vice versa. Simple as pie.
- Just let ‘em stand there: Who says they gotta walk in pairs anyway? Just have ‘em stand up there where they belong, next to the bride and groom.
And another thing, don’t go feelin’ bad if you gotta tell someone they can’t be in the weddin’ party. Weddins’ cost a pretty penny, y’know? If you can’t afford to have a whole army up there with ya, then you can’t. Just be nice about it, tell ‘em you love ‘em, but you gotta keep things small. They’ll understand.
It’s your day, your weddin’. You get to decide who stands up there with you. And if it ain’t even, so what? It’s about the love, not the numbers. Don’t let anyone tell you different.
And listen, if you’re gettin’ all stressed about how it’s gonna look, remember this: nobody’s gonna be countin’ heads when you’re walkin’ down that aisle. They’re gonna be lookin’ at you, at the happy couple. That’s all that matters.
So, ditch the worry, ditch the stress, and just enjoy your day. Get hitched, have a good time, and don’t fret about whether you got the same number of folks on each side. It’s your weddin’, do it your way. And that’s all there is to it.
And don’t forget the food! A good weddin’ needs good food, that’s what people really remember. None of that fancy stuff that nobody can pronounce, just good, down-home cookin’.
So there you have it. Uneven bridesmaids and groomsmen? No problem. Just do what feels right, and everything will be just fine. Now, go on and have yourself a weddin’!
And remember, at the end of the day, you’ll be married, and that’s all that really counts. It ain’t about how many folks are standin’ up there with ya, it’s about the love between you and your sweetheart. So go on, get hitched, and be happy! That’s all there is to it, really.
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