So, I decided to go with an outdoor wedding. It was always a dream of mine, you know, to get hitched under the open sky, with nature as our witness. But man, picking out what to wear? That was a whole other story.
First off, I started looking around, trying to figure out what “casual groom attire” even meant for an outdoor gig. I mean, I wanted to look good, but I also didn’t want to be “that guy” who’s overdressed in a full-on suit while everyone else is chilling. After all, it’s all about style and elegance!
Trousers, Shirts, or Vests?
I hit up a bunch of websites and blogs, and it seemed like there were a ton of options. Some dudes were saying linen is the way to go because it’s light and breezy. I even considered a kilt at one point, but then I remembered how hot it can get, and wool and heat just don’t mix. Also, I am not a linen fan.
- Trousers: Slim chinos are perfectly acceptable.
- Shirts: I will pick a simple linen shirt.
- Vests: A well-tailored waistcoat will be a nice choice.
Then there was the whole thing about whether to wear a jacket or not. I saw some guys rocking unlined cotton jackets, which looked pretty sharp. And then some were just going with a nice shirt and some slim chinos. And vests, well, a well-tailored vest seemed like a safe bet.
My Choice
After going back and forth, I decided to ditch the full suit idea. Instead, I went for a pair of light-colored slacks. I found these ones that were a bit dressy but not too formal. I figured I could pair them with a sport jacket, just to class it up a bit without going overboard.
For the shirt, I picked out a crisp, button-down one. It wasn’t anything fancy, but it was clean and fit me well. I wanted something that would look good on its own but also work under the jacket if I decided to wear it.
Shoes were another thing. I didn’t want to wear my regular dress shoes, but I also didn’t want to be too casual with sneakers. So, I found a decent pair of loafers that seemed to split the difference. And I went to some shops to try to find some options.
In the end, I think I found a good balance. I felt comfortable, which was key, but I also felt like I looked the part of the groom. It wasn’t too stuffy or formal, but it also wasn’t something I’d wear to a barbecue. Oh, and I made sure everything fit right. That’s important, you know? You don’t want to be swimming in your clothes or looking like you’re about to burst out of them.
All in all, it was a bit of a process, but I learned a lot about what goes into picking out groom attire for an outdoor wedding. It’s not just about following some rules but also about feeling good in what you’re wearing. After all, it’s your big day, too!
