OK, let’s talk about this naked wedding photography thing. I got into this whole mess because my buddy, let’s call him Tom, wanted some “unique” wedding photos. He’s always been a bit of a wild card, so I wasn’t too surprised when he suggested it. At first, I thought he was joking, but no, he was dead serious.
So, the first thing I did was to try to talk some sense into him. I mean, naked wedding photos? What about the grandparents? But he and his fiancee, let’s call her Sarah, were set on it. They wanted something that showed their “true selves” and “raw connection.” Whatever that means. They’re both pretty comfortable in their own skin, I guess, and wanted to capture that.
Once I realized I wasn’t going to change their minds, I started looking into how to actually do this. I started by checking out what other people were doing with naked wedding photos, just to get some ideas. Most of what I saw was more artsy than straight-up pornographic, which was good. Lots of silhouette shots, backlighting, and tasteful draping with sheets or whatever. I figured we could do something like that.
Then I had to think about locations. Obviously, we couldn’t do this just anywhere. I found a few secluded spots in the countryside that would offer privacy and nice natural backdrops. I also suggested shooting at their home, where they would be most comfortable.
Next was planning the actual shoot. I knew lighting was going to be key to making these shots look good and not like something out of a seedy magazine. I decided to focus on natural light, especially the “golden hour” just after sunrise and before sunset. That soft, warm light is always flattering.
I also wanted to make sure Tom and Sarah were comfortable during the shoot. I’m no stranger to them, they are my good friends. So we talked a lot beforehand about what they were okay with and what they weren’t. I told them to focus on each other, to move around, to lean into their emotions. I wanted the photos to feel natural, not forced.
The Big Day
On the day of the shoot, we started early in the morning to catch that golden hour light. We went to a secluded spot in the woods that I had scouted out earlier. Tom and Sarah were a little nervous at first, which was understandable. I mean, they were about to get naked in front of a camera. But they loosened up after a while and started to have fun with it.
I shot a lot of photos of them just interacting with each other, talking, laughing, kissing. I also got some more posed shots where they were looking at the camera, but I tried to keep it as natural as possible. I used some props like a white sheet to add some visual interest and to cover up certain parts when needed.
We also did a shoot at their home, in their bedroom and bathroom. These photos were more intimate and sensual. I used the natural light coming in through the windows to create some really beautiful shadows and highlights.
After the Shoot
After the shoot, I spent hours editing the photos. I wanted to make sure they looked professional and tasteful. I did some basic retouching, but I didn’t go overboard. I wanted to keep the photos as natural as possible.
When I finally showed the photos to Tom and Sarah, they loved them. They said the photos captured exactly what they were looking for: a raw, honest portrayal of their love and connection. Their families, well, that’s another story. But Tom and Sarah were happy, and that’s all that really mattered.
So, yeah, that’s my experience with naked wedding photography. It was definitely a unique experience, and I learned a lot. Would I do it again? Maybe. It’s not for everyone, but for the right couple, it can be a really beautiful and meaningful way to capture their wedding day. But man, it’s a lot of work and a bit of a headache to navigate all the sensitivities involved.
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