Alright, so you’re gettin’ hitched, huh? That’s mighty fine! But you got all these friends, good gals, and they ain’t all gonna be standin’ up there with ya. Don’t you fret none, there’s plenty of ways to get them involved, make ’em feel special-like.
First off, think about the ceremony itself. You know, the part where you say “I do” and all that. You could ask a friend to do a readin’. Somethin’ nice, maybe a poem or somethin’ from the Bible, if that’s your thing. Just make sure it ain’t too long, folks get fidgety, you know? And it gives your friend a little somethin’ important to do, makes ’em feel like they’re part of it all. That ain’t hard now, is it?
Now, think about the party afterwards, the reception, as they call it. That’s where the real fun starts, right? You got speeches, you got dancin’, all that good stuff. Why not ask a friend or two to give a toast? Let ’em say a few words about you and your fella, tell some funny stories, maybe embarrass ya a little, but in a good way, you know? Just make sure they ain’t had too much to drink beforehand, or you might get somethin’ you didn’t bargain for!
- Get ’em to help with the little things, that’s always a good idea.
- Maybe they can hand out programs before the ceremony, or help folks find their seats at the dinner.
- Or they could even be in charge of the guest book, makin’ sure everyone signs in.
And speaking of gettin’ ready, that’s another good way to include your friends. You know, all the fussin’ with the hair and makeup and all that. Invite your girlfriends over, have some snacks, put on some music, make it a party! It’s just like when we was young, getting ready to go to the town dance. It’s a nice way to spend time together before the big moment, and it helps calm your nerves, too. Less stress for ya.
Another thing you can do, and this is a real nice touch, is to give your friends somethin’ special to wear. Like a corsage or a little flower pin, somethin’ that shows they’re important to you. It don’t have to be nothin’ fancy, just a little somethin’ to let them know you’re thinkin’ of ’em. They ain’t gotta be up there with the bridesmaids to feel special.
And don’t forget all the stuff leadin’ up to the weddin’, neither. You know, the dress shoppin’, the bridal shower, the bachelorette party? Invite your friends to those things, even if they ain’t gonna be in the weddin’ party. It’s all part of the fun, and it makes them feel included. Plus, it’s always good to have extra help plannin’ and organizin’ all that stuff, believe you me. Too much for one gal to handle on her own.
Now, I know some folks, they get all caught up in havin’ the perfect weddin’, with the perfect number of bridesmaids and all that. But honestly, it ain’t about that. It’s about sharin’ your special day with the people you love, the people who care about you. And that includes all your friends, not just the ones standin’ up there with ya. So don’t you worry if you can’t fit everyone into the bridal party. There are plenty of other ways to make them feel special, to let them know you appreciate them. Just use your common sense, and do what feels right. It’s your day, after all.
Remember, it ain’t the size of the weddin’ party that matters, it’s the size of your heart. And if you got a big heart, you’ll find a way to include everyone who’s important to you. Just keep it simple, keep it real, and don’t sweat the small stuff. Your friends will appreciate it, and you’ll have a weddin’ day to remember, filled with love and laughter and all the good things in life. That’s what it’s all about, ain’t it?
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