Okay, so today’s topic is: does the mother of the groom get ready with the bride? I mean, it’s a wedding, right? A big day! Lots to think about, lots to do.
Figuring Out Who Gets Ready Where
First off, I started looking into this whole ‘who gets ready with whom’ thing. I realized that it’s not just about following some old rule book. Nah, it’s more about who you’re close to and what feels right. I talked to a few friends who’ve been through this, and they all said the same thing – do what makes you happy.
So, I decided to reach out to my future daughter-in-law. We’ve always had a good vibe, so I just asked her straight up what she had in mind for the wedding morning. She was super chill about it. Said she’s having her bridesmaids over, and her mom’s gonna be there, of course. And then she said, “It would be really nice if you could join us too.” Boom! That was easy.
Planning the Morning
Next up, I started thinking about the logistics. You know, hair, makeup, all that jazz. The bride told me they had already arranged a hair stylist and a makeup artist to come over to her place. So I called them up and asked if they could squeeze me in. They were cool with it, said it was no biggie. Phew, that’s sorted!
Then I thought about what I’d wear while we’re all getting ready. I didn’t want to show up in my full mother-of-the-groom getup from the get-go. I mean, we’re gonna be there for hours! So I picked out a comfy, but still kinda cute, robe and some slippers. Gotta look decent in those getting-ready pics, right?
The Actual Day
When the day finally arrived, I was a bit nervous, not gonna lie. But as soon as I got to the bride’s place, I felt right at home. Her mom was super welcoming, and the bridesmaids were all excited and fun. We chatted, laughed, and sipped on mimosas while getting our hair and makeup done. It was actually a blast!
I helped the bride with little things here and there, like zipping up her dress, and fixing her veil. And you know what? It felt really special to be a part of those moments. It wasn’t just about getting ready; it was about bonding and sharing the excitement.
My Takeaway
So, does the mother of the groom get ready with the bride? In my case, heck yeah! And it was awesome. But I guess it really comes down to your relationships and what everyone’s comfortable with.
- If you’re close to the bride, why not?
- If you’re not super close, maybe just pop in later to say hi and help out.
- At the end of the day, it’s about making the bride feel loved and supported.
Don’t get caught up in what’s “traditional” or “expected.” Just talk to each other, figure out what works, and go with the flow. It’s a celebration, after all! Have fun with it!
