Well, I heard some folks talkin’ ’bout whether the bride can see the groom’s suit before the big day. Some say it’s bad luck, some say it don’t matter. My old granny used to say it was a no-no, but things are different now, I reckon.
Is it Bad Luck?
Now, back in my day, they said it was bad luck for the bride and groom to see each other all dressed up before they said “I do.” But you know, that was a long time ago. They had all those old superstitions, like not steppin’ on a crack or you’d break your mama’s back. Nowadays, nobody even knows about it. Most folks don’t pay no mind to that old stuff anymore.
Some folks still like to keep it a secret, though. They say it’s more fun that way, you know, like a surprise. And I guess it can be kinda nice to see your man all spiffed up for the first time when you’re walkin’ down that aisle. Makes it more special, like.
Seein’ the Suit Beforehand
But honestly, I don’t see what the big deal is if she sees the suit. I mean, it’s just a suit. It ain’t gonna change how much they love each other, right? And if the bride sees the suit before the wedding, maybe the groom can wear it better on the wedding day. That’s good, right?
Some girls like to help their fellas pick out their clothes. Lord knows, some of these boys need the help! They don’t know a thing about matchin’ colors or nothin’. So, if the bride’s got a good eye, why not let her help? Makes sense to me.
- Help with pickin’: Bride can help the groom choose a good-lookin’ suit.
- No surprises: Ain’t no surprises on the weddin’ day if she’s already seen it.
- Less stress: They can get the suit all figured out beforehand, so there’s no rushin’ around on the weddin’ day.
It’s Their Choice
Really, it’s up to the bride and groom. It’s their weddin’, ain’t it? They should do what makes ’em happy. If they wanna keep it a secret, fine. If they don’t care, that’s fine too. Ain’t nobody else’s business but theirs.
My granddaughter, she let her fella see her dress before the weddin’. They went shoppin’ together and everything. And you know what? They had a beautiful weddin’. They were so happy, and that’s all that matters. And that fella, he looked so handsome in his suit. Didn’t matter that she’d already seen it. He still took her breath away.
Modern Times
Times are changin’, you know? Folks ain’t so hung up on those old rules anymore. Weddings are more about celebratin’ love and less about followin’ a bunch of silly rules. And if the bride and groom are happy, it will be a good wedding.
My other granddaughter, she didn’t want her man seein’ her dress. Said it was more romantic that way. And he didn’t see her until she was walkin’ down the aisle. He cried like a baby, he did. Said she was the most beautiful thing he’d ever seen. So, you see, it works both ways.
Back in the old days, they had those arranged marriages. The bride and groom didn’t even meet until the weddin’ day! Can you imagine? Nowadays, couples live together before they even think about gettin’ hitched. Times have sure changed.
Do What Makes You Happy
So, to answer the question, can bride see groom suit? I say, yes, if she wants to. It is ok. It won’t jinx the marriage. It won’t make the love disappear. It’s just a suit. What matters is the love between the two people gettin’ married. That’s what makes a weddin’ special. Not some old superstition about a suit.
You young folks today, you got it good. You can make your own rules. You can do whatever makes you happy. So, don’t you worry about what some old lady like me thinks. You just follow your heart, and everything will be alright.
Just remember to pick a suit that fits good, though! And maybe get some help from someone who knows about these things. A good suit can make all the difference, you know. Even if the bride’s already seen it a hundred times! And if she loves you, she will think you are handsome.
