Well, hello there, young’uns! You’re gettin’ hitched, huh? Bless your hearts. Now, you’re talkin’ about that first dance, the one where you two lovebirds sway around like you ain’t got a care in the world. It’s a big deal, that first dance. Gotta pick the right song, somethin’ that speaks to your hearts and, you know, keeps the good Lord in the picture.
You see, back in my day, we didn’t have all these fancy songs. We just danced to whatever the band was playin’, usually somethin’ slow and sweet. But times have changed, ain’t they? Now you got a whole world of music to choose from. So, let’s talk about some Christian wedding songs for that first dance. We gotta make sure it’s somethin’ special, somethin’ that honors God and your love for each other.
First off, you got that Matthew West fella singin’ “When I Say I Do.” That’s a good one. It’s all about the promises you make when you get married, you know, standin’ before God and everybody, sayin’ you’ll love each other forever and a day. It’s a real tearjerker, that one. Makes you think about what you’re doin’ and how serious it is. It’s all about the commitment, you see, stickin’ together through thick and thin, just like the Good Book says.
Then there’s BeBe and CeCe Winans singin’ “I Found Love.” Now, that’s a joyful song, real upbeat. It’s about findin’ that special someone, the one God meant for you. It’s like a celebration, a thank you to the Lord for bringin’ you two together. You know, like God had a hand in it, nudgin’ you both along until you finally bumped into each other. It’s a happy song, makes you wanna tap your feet and smile.
Some folks like those hymns, you know, the old-timey songs. Like “In Christ Alone” by them Getty folks. Or “How Great Thou Art.” Carrie Underwood sings a pretty version of that one. These songs are powerful, full of praise and worship. They remind you that God is at the center of your marriage, the foundation you’re buildin’ your life on. It’s like sayin’, “We can’t do this without you, Lord. We need your help every step of the way.” And ain’t that the truth?
- “When I Say I Do” by Matthew West – A good one for promisin’ and committin’.
- “I Found Love” by BeBe and CeCe Winans – Happy and joyful, like a celebration.
- “In Christ Alone” by Keith & Kristyn Getty – Powerful and full of praise.
- “How Great Thou Art” – A classic hymn, shows you need God in your marriage.
Now, some young folks might want somethin’ a little more… modern. That Josh Groban song, “You Raise Me Up,” that’s a popular one. Or even Chris Tomlin’s version of “Amazing Grace.” It doesn’t matter if it’s new or old, fast or slow, as long as it means somethin’ to you both. It’s your dance, see? You gotta pick somethin’ that makes you feel the love and makes you wanna hold on tight to each other.
Think about it, have you and your sweetheart danced to it before? Maybe on a date, or singin’ along in the car? Does it bring back good memories? Does it make your hearts flutter? That’s what matters. It ain’t just about the music, it’s about the feelin’ it gives you. The song should tell a story, your story, about how you found each other and how you’re gonna spend the rest of your lives together, with God’s blessin’.
So, don’t just pick any old song. Put some thought into it. Pray about it, even. Ask the Lord to guide you and help you choose the perfect song. And when you’re out there on that dance floor, look into each other’s eyes, and remember why you’re there. You’re there because you love each other, and because God brought you together. And that’s somethin’ worth celebratin’.
And remember, it’s your wedding. You can pick a song nobody has ever heard of before if it makes you happy. You can pick a song that reminds you of when you first met, or of a special time in your relationship. The most important thing is that the song is meaningful to you and your spouse-to-be. And that it glorifies God. Don’t forget that part.
Now, I’ve said my piece. Go on now, and find that perfect song. And may God bless your marriage.
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