Alright, so you’re gettin’ hitched, huh? Good for you, good for you. But weddings, lemme tell ya, they ain’t just about the bride and groom. You got all these folks, friends and family, wantin’ to be a part of it. But you can’t have everyone standin’ up there with ya, right? So, what do you do with all them extra hands? You give ’em jobs, that’s what!
First off, you gotta think about your best gal pals, the ones that didn’t make the bridesmaid cut. Maybe you only wanted a few up there, or maybe your fella’s got a big family and you had to make room. Don’t matter. These girls, they’re still important. So, you gotta make ’em feel special. Don’t go makin’ a big fuss about it durin’ the ceremony though, that’ll just make ’em feel awkward, like they stickin’ out like a sore thumb. Nah, you gotta be sneaky about it.
Invite ’em to all the fun stuff, you know, the bachelorette party, the dress fittin’s, all that jazz. Let ’em be part of the gang, even if they ain’t wearin’ the matchin’ dresses. You can give ’em somethin’ special though, like a pretty flower to wear, or maybe a fancy candle to hold. Just somethin’ to show they’re part of your crew.
Now, these gals, they can do all sorts of things at the weddin’. They can be your “house party,” that’s what them fancy folks call it. They can greet folks as they come in, hand out programs, or even help people find their seats. Think of ’em like little helpers, makin’ sure everything runs smooth.
- Greeters: Stand at the door, welcome folks, and point ’em in the right direction. Easy peasy.
- Ushers: Help folks find their seats, especially those old aunties that can’t see too good.
- Program Distributors: Hand out them little booklets with all the weddin’ details.
- Emergency Kit Holders: You know, for when the bride’s heel breaks or someone needs a safety pin.
Then you got your talkers, the ones who like to be heard. They can be your ceremony readers. Got a favorite poem or a Bible verse you love? Let ’em read it! It’s a nice way to include ’em and give ’em a little spotlight time. Just make sure they practice beforehand, you don’t want them stumblin’ over words up there.
And don’t forget about the music! Maybe you got a friend who can sing or play an instrument. That’s perfect! Weddin’ music ain’t gotta be some fancy orchestra. A good guitar or a heartfelt song can be just as nice, maybe even nicer. It’s personal, you know? It shows you care.
Another important job nobody thinks about much is the toast maker. Now, you don’t want just anybody ramblin’ on at your reception. Pick someone who knows you and your fella well, someone who can tell a good story and make people laugh, maybe even cry a little bit. It’s a big honor, givin’ a toast, so choose wisely.
And listen, even if your friends ain’t got a specific job, you can still make ’em feel included. Just ask for their help with stuff. Maybe they can help you decorate, or pick up supplies, or even just listen to you vent when you’re stressed out. Weddings are a lot of work, and havin’ a few extra hands and ears around can make all the difference.
The most important thing is to make sure your friends feel loved and appreciated. They’re there to support you, so show ’em you appreciate it. A little thank you goes a long way, you know? Maybe a small gift, or even just a heartfelt hug. It’s the thought that counts. And remember this ain’t about puttin’ on a show it’s about sharin’ a happy day with the folks ya care about.
So, go on, plan that weddin’, and don’t forget about your friends. They’re the ones who’ll be there for you through thick and thin, long after the cake is eaten and the flowers have wilted. Give ’em a role, make ’em feel special, and let ’em celebrate with you. That’s what it’s all about, ain’t it?
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